Whew! Today was pretty intense. I woke up at 3:00 a.m. and was set up and ready to go at my craft fair by 6:00 a.m. Mind you, the fair didn’t start until 9 a.m. So, that just left me being cold for three hours with no-one to talk to, I couldn’t even crochet or knit! I thought about making myself a pair of my gloves, but my hands wouldn’t work. Needless to say, by the time I got home, I crashed. I’m not even ashamed of my two hour drool filled nap. Know why? Because I did work today! I had my most successful fair yet and that has me extremely pumped! I met so many amazing people, got to spend time with my best friend, and even bought a couple Christmas presents. So, win win in my eyes!
But onto the good stuff. As I sit here with my wine glass that says “Raising Tiny Humans is Exhausting” it’s dawning on me that, no, no it’s not. I don’t know maybe my kids are an exception, or maybe I have just grown used to them by now that I don’t sweat the small stuff. Whatever it is, I’m happy. It’s not exhausting, it’s exhilarating! I’m just having the wine because it tastes good. lol. Nothing fancy, just a four dollar bottle of rose, but it does its job!
So, a few days ago a fan of mine on Facebook commented on one of my photos simply wanting to know more about the craft. Now, I could have gone about this three different ways. One totally dismiss her and see her as some sort of enemy who is trying to steal my potential customers. Two comment with a general comment, and leave it at that. OR Three comment with something sweet and welcoming! I of course chose the third option. It was no question to me whether or not I should welcome her into this world with open arms! I mean, how awesome is it that someone else wants to know all there is about fiber, tools, and so much more?! Gosh, it just gets me so excited thinking about it!
Anyway, we chatted a bit here and there and I invited her to the fair today. To be honest, I didn’t expect her to show since no one has really come from our page looking to meet us. But at about 10 a.m. this sweet woman walks up and starts feeling all of our pieces, and talking about how she really wants to start making headbands. Then she said “Oh yeah, when I found you on Facebook..” I jumped up and said “What’s your name?” and she responded. I laughed a little and probably became a little shy, but I was so excited! Someone was actually here to see me, to see my creations! So, I reached down under the table and took out her little “welcome to the fiber world” present and handed it to her. This was my way of saying, you’ve got this! Any who, we got to chatting and the rest is history.
It was such a joy to finally meet someone who follows me on Facebook and to chat with them for a bit! This world should be as inviting as possible, and the first step in doing that is to put yourself out there! I know it’s hard, believe me, I too am an introvert. But even with all the awkwardness of putting yourself out there, you stand to gain so much. It could be from someone you meet, or something you see, or something you smell! I can’t tell you how many times I have been out somewhere and smelled something amazing and gone home and made that same smell happen for dinner.
So, moral of the story? Get out there! Do what you love, create what YOU love! This is your life, live it how you want to live it! As someone who suffers from severe anxiety I can tell you that since I have started doing these fairs, my anxiety has all but diminished. There are of course things that still linger, but I can get in my car and drive anywhere and do anything I want to do! And it all started with putting myself out there.
I hope you are having a fantastic weekend, and getting all of your Holiday shopping finished! I can not wait for Christmas this year!
Until Next Time,
Shannon